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Tuesday, November 29, 2016
"The power of the fuck, their cocks, and their attitude. Plus i love the look of a black man on my white body! It turns me on to see a black cock in my hands or between my legs. I love it."
"I was approached at a swing party by a very handsome, articulate, intelligent, well groomed young black man who said that he loved older women especially white women. I really connected with him on an emotional and mental level. the more we talked, the more we clicked. And I knew that physically it would be absolutely amazing. I was right! The sex we had was incredible and I was disappointed when the night was over and the party shut down. I would have enjoyed a few more rounds with him!"
"I love the contrast of our skin as we move together in passion. The taboo that society places on it brings out the rebellious nature in me, making me want to flaunt my desire of black men. In the bedroom (or wherever!) black men seem to be more aggressive which suits my natural submissive tendencies. And as my daughter said to me once when I asked her why she seemed to only date black men .. they have an animal magnetism that most white men lack these days."
"When I think about the black lovers I’ve had since my college days, a few things stick out in my mind: full lips that engulf me in theirs, smooth, almost hairless skin that feels like it’s been lubed, eye contact and attention that make me feel like I am a queen, and a confident, classy seduction that tells me I am wanted."
"I love their tight bodies, beautiful eyes and there is something about a dark cock that is just hot. The best thing I like about the BBC is they never let you down. If you set something up they always show up, never have excuses and always perform well."
"They are beautiful, passionate, strong and have big dicks. I love all ages but like older guys 40 and up, they are classy, elegant and I love the "daddy" type."
"I find the difference in skin tone exciting. And sex with a black man evokes a raw sexuality that makes me come easier. I don’t consider myself a size queen, I’m more a talent queen. Making a woman orgasm during sex takes experience and know-how. Most of the black men I’ve met have talent and a lot have size as a plus."
"There is something very sexy about seeing a big black cock in my tiny little white hands or against my petite little body."
"Their huge cocks! Love the stretching they give me! Plus the few I have been with have been very nice and not arrogant like some other men can be."
Thursday, November 24, 2016
"Black men seem to have exotic, sensual, sexual energy that many other cultures lack."
Spades Mag (Drew): Hi Jadan. Tell us all about you.
Jadan Snow: I am Jadan Snow a Sexy, Bad Ass, Milf, Swinger, Adrenaline Junkie, Queen of Spades, BBC tamer, and REAL. I am an educated RN with a masters degree, married, have 3 children, and a Veteran of the Iraqi War.
SM: Do you have a boyfriend/husband? How does he feel you being in the lifestyle?
JS: I am married, we both love the swinger lifestyle. It has made our connection and relationship stronger and deeper.
SM: How long have you been in the lifestyle? What drew you to it?
JS: I am relatively new only being in the lifestyle for 2 years. Before my husband and I met we were both "players" and extremely sexual. Neither one of us had been faithful in past relationships. We tamed each other and after being together for 4 years faithfully, we missed the wild side of life. We decided to explore the lifestyle together and created new sexual fantasies that we had not experienced.
SM: Have you always been attracted to Black men or is that something that developed later?
JS: Yes I have always been attracted to black men. I find beauty in all races and nationalites. Sexy bridges all racial barriers.
SM: What drew you to Black men? Why do you like making love to Black men?
JS: Black men seem to have exotic, sensual, sexual energy that many other cultures lack.
SM: How did your first Black experience come about and did your taste of interracial passion live up to what you were hoping for?
JS: After 6 months of being in the lifestyle, doing orgies, swapping, and MFM I had only experienced white men. I found that it was very mechanical, and could only have orgasms with my husband. My husband is white but has the sensual dominant vibe that black men have. My husband actually brought to my attention that I would be more pleased with black men, if I preferred sensual dominant men. For some reason much of the white men lack in the area of sensuality. I have slept with a lot of white men so that I can say that to be true. I had not yet experienced black men but had always been intrigued. I have been very pleased with my experiences with black men.
SM: How has your IR sex life progressed since that 1st Black experience? Any regular Black lovers?
JS: The lifestyle has some amazing black men to offer. I have found that we rarely invite white men to party and play. I do have a couple regulars, and stay in contact with all of them to this point. I haven't had a negative experience yet.
SM: Who do you prefer to sleep with? Your husband or your Black lovers? Who do you sleep with more? Your Husband or your Black lovers?
JS: My husband and I as a rule only "play" in the same room, and my husband fully participates. He is not cuckold and I could not marry a cuckold, I am an Alpha female and want my men to Alpha as well, that is the only way that I can be submissive. I believe that it is the natural order for women to be submissive but assertive in the bedroom. I prefer both at the same time.
"Turn ons- deep throating (i love the adrenaline rush), Getting fucked doggy style while sucking cock, Making black men cum hard, squirting during deep penetration or getting finger banged. I love to start out sensual and get rough and fuck hard."
SM: What's your favorite way to pleasure BBC or be pleasured by them? Do you prefer one or groups?
JS: I prefer 3somes with my husband and black men. I love to deep throat cock while I am getting fucked doggy style. Deep throating helps me to squirt while fucking.
SM: Are you strictly for BBC or you date and sleep with other races?
JS: I sleep with all races, but the BBC market in the lifestyle has high standards and is very competitive. I have not found very many males of different races to live up to the BBC standard.
SM: What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
JS: There is not much I haven't done. Name it and I have probably done it.
SM: Are a size queen? What's the biggest cock you have had? What is the perfect size cock for you?
JS: I like deep penetration so i don't want a short cock. I am only 5'2" and 105 lbs so anything too massive just fucking hurts. The biggest cock was 12" long and 6" girth, that was painful, but i took it. The perfect size is between 8'-10", but honestly it is all in the touch not the size of the cock.
SM: What do you want to do most in the lifestyle that you haven't done yet? Is that your biggest sexual fantasy? and if not, what is your biggest sexual fantasy?
JS: I have accomplished almost everything on my fantasy list. I still think it would be hot to have 4 to 5 girls lined up doggy-style on a table and 5 to 6 guys fuck each girl for 30 seconds and then come around front to get their cock sucked...That would be interesting...That is not by biggest sexual fantasy. My biggest fantasy was doing a gang bang. It was with me and 3 BBC and my husband, that was fun but a lot of work. That when I invented the rule if there is 3 or more guys there has to be another female. Its more fun for everybody.
SM: Are you into anal?
JS: Yes love it. I love DP, and can orgasm easily.
SM: Swallow or spit?
JS: Both depends on my mood.
SM: Do you have a Queen of Spades tattoo? If not would you get one to show your love for BBC?
JS: No I don't have a spades tattoo, I would consider getting one.
SM: Do any of your family or friends know about your involvement in the lifestyle or your love for BBC? If not how do you think they would react?
JS: My family does not know, I have only lived in Tampa for 6 years so most of close friends are not aware of my lifestyle. Honestly I think that what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. My best friend since childhood know about it and she is super sexual herself and is really intrigued, unfortunately she lives 1200 miles away or she would be part of the fun.
"I prefer 3somes with my husband and black men. I love to deep throat cock while I am getting fucked doggy style. Deep throating helps me to squirt while fucking."
SM: What turns you on? Turn offs? What do you look for in a guy?
JS: Turn ons- deep throating (i love the adrenaline rush), Getting fucked doggy style while sucking cock, Making black men cum hard, squirting during deep penetration or getting finger banged. I love to start out sensual and get rough and fuck hard.
Turn offs- mechanical fucking with no soul or intensity, and guys that don't manscape or are not groomed well.
I love the sexual and sensual but dominant males. I like athletic built men, because it takes an athlete to keep up wit me..lol... But most importantly I look for guys that are real no playing games, I hate when guys aren't honest and open. I am very open minded and don't judge, I speak openly and honestly and want the same. There is no reason to play games when there is no attachment involved.
SM: Are you bisexual?
JS: No, not at all. I prefer hard bodies and hard cock. I love having other females around during play but nothing sexual.
SM: In case they are reading this blog, do you have a celebrity crush?
JS: Yes!! Lebron James and Jameis Winston
SM: A lot of hotwives/Queen of Spades are getting into making their own adult movies. Is that something you would ever do?
JS: Actually I do make my own movies. I do sell my stuff on clips4sale. I have been approached to do professional, but I decline because it isn't real. All my movies are real, there is no faking orgasms, all my screams and moans are me getting off.
SM: Thanks for agreeing to this interview, Jadan. Where can someone keep up with you and get in contact with you?
JS: Twitter handle is @jadansnow, clips4sale store is clips4sale.com/98299, snapchat: jadansnow, Instagram: jadansnow , Facebook page: jadan snow